A Website for Women to Vent Their Frustration

A Mary Kay consultant attempted to shame us for our participation on Pink Truth, and I told her that we would pray for her.  This is her response.

So, you believe in prayer? I truly appreciate your prayers…although, I am curious as to what your prayer content will be? Do you not see yourself slandering against me ?

My purpose in giving an argument  against what several on your website had written was to show that each of  you have been misled…either by your own pre-judgement or by what you observed. Your posts implied that none of you chatted with any of these directors to voice your questions. Instead, you appear to have crossed your arms and made judgements based merely on what you observed.
I believe in speaking the truth and arguing for it. Because there is no true argumentation presented in this email response debating what I had written, we are at the point of quarreling. That is not pleasing to God. If you had presented information that would truthfully and factually counter what I had written, I would be all ears. But, once again, I see you cowering behind envy and jealousy…which is totally unnecessary…as I would help you join the pink bubble and grow in grace and truth if you would only be open to the subject.

Sadly, the point of your website is not to “warn” women of the falsehood of Mary Kay, Inc., but merely a website made for women to vent their frustration resulting from envy and jealousy.

I love my life and I thank God every day for the women of Mary Kay who are blessings sent to me from God. He knew I needed them. Thank you, Jesus!

1 Peter 3:16 Yet argue modestly and cautiously, keeping your consciences free from guilt, so that, when you are spoken against, those who slander your good Christian lives may be put to shame.

Thank you for your prayers…but God will turn a deaf ear to you if they are not prayers spoken in accordance with His Word. Unless you have true arguments to present to me regarding my former post, you won’t hear from me.

I am too busy (making calls to women and building relationships with those who appreciate the encouragement I have for them) to continue having a discussion on your Pink Truth (?) website which borders on quarreling.

In turn, I will pray for you…envy and jealousy can be a heavy yoke to carry.

18 Comments

  1. KB

    Oh yes, we are so envious and jealous and whatever you think…R O F L! In case English is a second language for you, please re read and comprehend: We ALL worked MK before. When you obtain Cadillac status, then you have a right to speak. Until then, please sit down in the corner and go color. You have NO idea what you are talking about.

  2. Lazy Gardens

    “I would help you join the pink bubble and grow in grace and truth if you would only be open to the subject.” Are you saying that the only way to “grow in grace and truth” is to join you in Mary Kay’s pink bubble? Oh sweetie if I weren’t an atheist, I’d pray for you because you have confused a multi-level marketing scheme for an actual religion.

  3. BestDecision

    I drove Cadillacs. I’m not jealous at all of anyone left behind in MK! I have my nights and weekends back, I have steady income that I can count on back, and I have real friends who allow me to be real with them and don’t shun me for voicing concerns or “negativity”.

    Last night, in fact, I had a nightmare about trying to get bookings on my datebook. Dacia Wiegandt kept lecturing me about how much more work I needed to do and that I was never doing enough. I woke up with my heart racing and then realized that nightmare wasn’t my daily life anymore. I don’t have to read another self-help book but can read for LEISURE. I don’t have to carry business cards on me and watch for “sugar sharp” women. I don’t have to look at the calendar and see month-end approaching and wonder how much my paycheck will be based on “if ——— places her order”. I don’t have to forfeit a beautiful spring weekend with my family to drive to Career Conference, race to save seats, and hear the endless, repetitive speeches from women that are so full of themselves it sickens me.

    It’s obvious you’ve never spent much time backstage. You do realize the crew actually MAKES FUN OF US and how we dress, walk, and scream into the microphones, right?

    Believe me, my prayers were answered. And I was finally brave enough to get out.

    Amen.

    1. OnelessSD

      I’m with Best- I have a fulfilling job that is still flexible… allows me to take time off when I need to, and enjoy that time off! I enjoy my evenings and weekends with my family or other people I choose to be with.. instead of the masses of MK women that are fake. I absolutely LOVE my life now! I don’t worry about deadlines, who is ordering, who do I call, etc., my paychecks are solely determined on how much I decided to work- every minute I work, I get paid for- that is something that NEVER happened while I was pursuing MK. So, please don’t assume I’m jealous of anyone in MK – because that couldn’t be farther from the truth. I lived that life, pursued that dream for way too long, and I have no desire to ever go back. If I can be bluntly honest- I pity those who are still stuck in the pink muck. They will never be free, they will always be on the hunt for their next recruit, etc. They can never simply stop and enjoy a vacation, enjoy an evening out, enjoy life…because they can never stop. I pity that lifestyle.

  4. raisinberry

    “Sadly, the point of your website is not to “warn” women of the falsehood of Mary Kay, Inc., but merely a website made for women to vent their frustration resulting from envy and jealousy.”

    You haven’t done your homework. You haven’t researched the facts that have been presented. The absolute LAST thing anyone is on this website, is jealous. Most of us were “Successful” according to Mary Kay…perhaps that has escaped your notice. We know how cars are won, we’ve won them. We Know how Unit Clubs are achieved on the last day of June…we’ve done it. We have mentored “offspring”, taken stage walks, taught you at Seminar classes. There is nothing you think you are working towards that we have not already achieved. We ARE warning you.

  5. Beverly A Graves

    “Your posts implied that none of you chatted with any of these directors to voice your questions.” That’s because WE WERE ALREADY DIRECTORS. What a maroon (spoken in the style of Bugs Bunny)!

  6. Char

    “…….but merely a website made for women to vent their frustration resulting from envy and jealousy.” ——
    I am not envious or jealous of lying pyramid schemers who take advantage of women in need.

    “If you had presented information that would truthfully and factually counter what I had written, I would be all ears.” ——
    Yet her entire email is mostly about faith. Oh, the irony!

    “I love my life and I thank God every day for the women of Mary Kay who are blessings sent to me from God. He knew I needed them. Thank you, Jesus!” ——
    My aren’t you special! In one sentence, you’ve declared that God loved you more because some of the MK women God sent to other women actually bankrupted them; and you managed to alienate 70% of other humans on Earth effectively declaring yourself superior.

  7. MLM Radar

    Funny how she pokes us in the eye and proclaims us to be judgmental, when she is the most short-sighted and judgmental of all.

    Then she foolishly proclaims that our opinions are due to us being pre-judgmental and outside observers only. Whereas she, on the inside, thinks she has all truth. Then she starts preaching to us about what God does.

    Her opinions are totally shallow. Her grasp of the truth of this website is that of a quick pre-judgment and brief observation only. She looked only long enough to ratify her own pre-judgment. Her spew about God seals the deal; she has no idea what she’s talking about but she makes a lot of noise anyway.

    I’m short, she’s trying to distract us and make us defensive, by accusing us of doing exactly what SHE is trying to do to us.

    That’s an amateur mistake. We can recognize that script from a distance.

    @ the consultant: Bless your heart, sweetie. You just keep on making those phone calls while you still can. It won’t last. Check back in with us in a few months, when you run out of friend’s numbers to call. It gets a lot harder when you’re trying to harvest phone numbers of people you don’t know.

    I can speak for myself and a lot of other people, that when a call from an unknown number shows up on my phone I send it straight to voice mail. If you keep calling and don’t leave a message, I block you. If you leave a message I don’t like, I block you. If I do answer and you try to sell me something or lure me to a “party” I block you.

  8. No Pink For Me

    I am neither envious or jealous. I am relieved and happy. I do pray for my former SD to see the truth. I care about her and hope her young children will one day know of a mom whose mind isn’t always thinking about Mary Kay.

    1. Char

      I’d like to see both. A Mary Kay Schedule C and also evidence God sent her the women of Mary Kay. Proof please. She “needed “ those women. Does that mean she wasn’t praying for help before that? Why didn’t those prayers work? Hmmmmm? And while she’s at it, what address will she send Jesus’ thank you note to?

      “Unless you have true arguments to present to me….” – I wonder if she knows the definition of hypocrisy?

      “Hypocrisy is the contrivance of a false appearance of virtue or goodness, while concealing real character or inclinations, especially with respect to religious and moral beliefs; hence, in a general sense, hypocrisy may involve dissimulation, pretense, or a sham. Hypocrisy is the practice of engaging in the same behavior or activity for which one criticizes another.”

  9. Mikiepocd

    “Instead, you appear to have crossed your arms and made judgements based merely on what you observed.“

    Isn’t that how it works? Isn’t most of my human life based on what I observe? Wouldn’t I have to delude myself somehow to base it on something else?

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