Written by The Scribbler
Mary Kay nsd Pam Shaw shows you how to close a recruit while you are at the event or at the unit meeting by using a leaf dipped in 14 karat gold.
Scrib’s note: Are you a guest at your friend’s unit meeting? Beware – the directors have something extra-special lined up for you at its end, and if you’re not prepared, you’ll be sucked in quicker than a pigeon into a jet engine. Steel yourself, post a guard your emotions, and know before you go! Continue reading “The Gold Leaf Close”
Written by SuzyQ
You didn’t think it would ever happen, but as soon as you left Mary Kay, you were shunned… ignored… negative… didn’t work your business… didn’t do it the Mary Kay way….
shunned, shun•ning, shuns
To avoid deliberately; keep away from.
I know there have been questions about the cars… “What happens to the Mary Kay cars that are taken away?” (They are sold at auto auctions, no, they are not repainted.) But, what happens to the people? Specifically, the directors? (They are shunned.) Continue reading “The Mary Kay Fade to Black”
Written by MommyMindi
At a loss for what to tell the woman who joined your Mom’s group, church, or organization just to sell Mary Kay?
Dear New Independent Beauty Consultant:
Thank you for your interest in joining our club…. but we don’t want you here.
I know that you are excited about your new business. I know that your Director has told you that joining a playgroup or group for stay-at-home-moms is a sure-fire way to get new customers. Your Director is wrong. Continue reading “When a Woman Joins a Group Just to Sell Mary Kay”
This article was originally published in March 2009. We are running it again to illustrate what happens to Mary Kay “stars” in a period of five years.
Written by The Scribbler
Curious about that title, dear seeker? If you are, you’ve found the right flight! Pass your battered Ziploc bag packed with 3 oz bottles to that TSA agent over there – the one with the barrel-chest and the Pop-Tart sized choppers – and we’ll clear security in no time. What? You need one of us to volunteer to be searched? Fair enough; I’ll be the sacrificial lamb if it’ll help get everyone else to the gate unspoiled. Continue reading “Fifty Former Mary Kay Go-Give Recipients (and 78% of them aren’t Go-Giving enough!)”
Written by Raisinberry
One of the devices used to achieve mind-numbing compliance with all things Mary Kay was the use of the slogan. We were led down a path of little to no resistance because no matter what ugly objection surfaced in our heads, we had a cancel, cancel, canceling thought that fought back.
The slogans shut down our concerns, convicted us of Mary Kay sin, aroused our enthusiasm, and otherwise controlled our thoughts. No critical thinking allowed here! “You become like those you hang around”, and what do you know…we did!The de-pinking process is both painful and grotesque. But taking a page from Mary Kay’s book, it seems wise to create a new set of slogans that can replace the old, with accurate information. Maybe even a little humor to help us in those days of regret, and wisps of embarrassing memories. Continue reading “If It’s to Be, It’s Up to Me!”
Written by JTA
Since transitioning out of the role of “NSD to be”, I have observed some very interesting and disturbing things with my offspring with regard to them doing fake orders to make production. These are things that have happened in the past but I either did not notice or chose not to face what was really going on.
I share this in the hopes that if you are doing any of these things you will see the futility and STOP. Or if you are a leader that you will notice this behavior and work in a positive manner with your offspring to help them to maintain their unit legitimately. Continue reading “The Lengths Mary Kay Directors Will Go To In Order To Make Production”
Written by Lynn717
I am sick and tired of all the fake I have seen in Mary Kay. I’ve watched my director go from someone who seemed caring and thoughtful to pushy and rude to anyone who isn’t on board with her mission. Looking back I can see how she played off my emotions in order for me to pay up for inventory, events, my recruit’s orders, because “only I could make DIQ HAPPEN.” The production amounts each month are ridiculously stupid and impossible to build an actual legit team and train them properly. It’s all about HIGH PRODUCTION and not HOW MANY YOU ACTUALLY RECRUIT AND YOUR HARD WORK. It’s always moving on to the next one, and the next one, and the next one.
It’s so superficial and I feel like I lost a lot of friends who were once team members simply because they didn’t have enough production. It’s like a popularity contest. The only real way to make any money is to NOT go to the events and lose thousands, NOT order just to stay active, and NOT pursue “huge throw up goals” that make YOU want to pay out of your own pocket to NOT look like a “loser.” To actually only order what you sell to your customers who are loyal. Continue reading “Sick and Tired of Faking it in Mary Kay”
Written by SuzyQ
I want to talk to you about being a Mary Kay sales director. We are not all monsters. There are some who are monsters… and those women should not be allowed to work with people anywhere. But for the most part, something happens to a normally decent, smart and loving human being when she becomes a director with Mary Kay Cosmetics.
There is so much stress in achieving the position in addition to learning new things everyday about how the company really works and pays. There are many things that are not discussed. Continue reading “The Moral Compass of a Mary Kay Sales Director”
Written by sadnpink
Guilt and shame are two of the most powerful manipulative tools in the tool box of MLMs and especially Mary Kay. It is one reason so many women stay in the company and find it difficult to leave.
The thought of “who am I going to let down if I leave” can be strong enough to keep us in a holding pattern when we know we should go.
Continue reading “The Mary Kay Guilt Trip”